I shall have to ask MT if I can reveal information regarding my 'treats' mentioned on yesterdays blog.
I read a few posts on a Femdom web site yesterday. There were comments about a wide range of things including somewhat negative remarks about Femdoms who cuckold their slaves, Owner/property relationships and about extreme sadistic play.
The ' extreme sadistic play ' remark was particularly interesting, to paraphrase, one author felt that the sadist was not to blame but the victim was and questioned how anyone could possibly allow someone to do such terrible things to them.
As to 'cuckolding' to paraphrase, someone wrote that slaves are being totally stupid if they do not realise that one day their owners will run off with the bull.
To paraphrase the comment regarding being property and not having the right to leave etc, went along the lines of ' I can't see why anyone would like to live like this, and they could leave if they wanted to etc etc it is just delusional.
Now I do believe of course that people are free to have their opinions, I am fully supportive of this. So here is my view of the persons comments.
The person in question is a submissive and believes in female supremacy and allegedly practices this... whilst there is of course nothing at all wrong with this it hardly places him in a position to criticize other peoples lifestyle.
It appears he is not currently in a relationship (what a surprise), has never been involved personally with cuckolding and basically seems to actually know very little about the subject if anything at all.
His views on O/p relationships yet again illustrate he is talking from a virtually zero knowledge base. I think he has absolutely nothing to worry about in regards to ever becoming property, no one sane would possibly even consider him.
He even went on discuss if he was repeatedly fucked with a strap on and then made to come on the strap on and then suck the spunk off it might be a good way to condition someone to eventually accept being fucked by a man and doing arse to mouth. He stated of course he had no gay desires but did wonder if he could be conditioned by this procedure.
Sometimes I despair of some people.
To be in a committed relationship requires great effort by all parties and to stay in it requires even greater effort.
I have been in a few relationships (lots actually). But I have never been in such a fantastic relationship as the one I am in now. Our relationship is full of love, honour, honesty, respect, commitment, dedication, caring, consideration, fun, happiness and hundreds of other wonderful things, far too many to mention.
I get plenty of use by my uber dominant sadistic owner yet I ALWAYS feel loved and cared for. If my owner takes another lover, then so what, I know she loves me and will stay with me and I will always stay with her. It is not a threat, it is an enhancement, an extension of our lives and a testament to the strength of our relationship.I am always involved, always there and everything is open and upfront...unlike many vanilla relationships.
I have never been happier than I am now by being my owners property, nothing comes close to what we have. Yes there have been difficult times and no doubt some more to come. But our life together is so special and so precious we will get through any difficulties and come out stronger the other side.
I find this lifestyle so fucking hard at times and yet it suits me totally and fulfills me.
People like the twat I referred to do not really deserve mention but I like to express my opinions sometimes, especially regarding ill informed bigots.
Situations, such as you have, are transitory. I admire your position, and wish you a long lasting relationship of the kind you describe. I wish to be in a similar situation. Alas, I cannot be. As for you, enjoy it while it lasts. In a short while it will be over.
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